Just a week ago, we experienced not only the turn of the year, but the turn of a decade. People have made a huge deal about new year’s resolutions from one year to the next, and I’ve always found them quite silly considering people can make resolutions at any point in the year. However, I will admit that with the end of a decade and the beginning of a new one, it may be a good time to reflect on your last ten years and look forward to the next ten.
So, this should be approached as a new decade’s
resolutions instead. If it were thought of like this by the masses, I’d have
much fewer problems with the idea of resolutions, especially if long term goals
For myself, I’m looking to focus a lot more on my
financial situation going forward as well as my health. If there are two things
that impact my life the most down the road, it’s these. While other smaller
resolutions are fun to tackle, nothing is as impactful as taking care of your
body and mind while also building a solid financial base that will support you
Regarding health, I know one thing I’ll be
cutting back on this year (to prepare for the decade to come) is alcohol and
candy. Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t drink every single day, and I’m not
some sort of candy fiend who is always at the theater munching on whatever
candy boxes I can get my hands on.
But still, I know that alcohol will slowly
destroy my liver, and candy boxes are absolutely loaded with sugars that are
not only bad for my body but my dental health as well. While they have been my
little vices for the past few years, I know they haven’t impacted me too badly
in the immediate here and now. But that sort of thinking is what gets you in
trouble decades down the road. I don’t want to wake up one day and have some
sort of heart problem or liver problem that could have been avoided back when I
was this age.
I think if more people considered their health
and life down the road when they made resolutions for the new year, things
would be a lot less bleak. When we learn to look towards the future and learn
from the past, real change occurs.
Any time I think of the chores that need done around my own household, my mind wanders back to a time when I was young, had no true responsibilities or jobs, and only had to do a few chores a week for my parents. Sometimes I get caught up in wishing that was my life again because of the freedom and lack of care in the world. But then I realize I wouldn’t truly have the “freedom” I now have to do anything I’d like whenever I like.
Still, it’s a point in my life worth missing with
how little I had to do. School was easy. My home life was great. And I had a lot of free time to do whatever I
wanted. I sometimes wish I still could explore my options in my free time now,
but things are a little more rigid when you’re an adult.
Chores, though, gave me character. And there were
a few in particular that I think instilled a sense of ownership and
responsibility in me more than other chores ever could have. Those chores?
Well, read on.
This was likely the most common chore I carried
out and one that the house needed the most on a daily basis. I got pretty good
about carrying a few cardboard boxes around the house with me to pick up loose
items and clothes. This helped me to save trips walking from one room to the
other putting things in their rightful places. Of course, if you wanted to use
something else besides cardboard boxes, plastic totes would suffice. We just
didn’t happen to have any.
What better way to give a teen responsibility
than trusting them to run power equipment? Obviously this is something that I
was taught to be extra careful with, even if it was a riding mower. We never
had hills on our property, so it was as safe as could be when mowing. Still, it
sort of made me feel more like an adult every time I cut the lawn.
Working as a dishwasher when I was 16 kind of
ruined doing dishes at home as a chore when I was younger, if only because I
felt like my life was consumed with dishes. So, I learned the art of compromise
and would often trade my brother chores in order to get out of washing dishes.
That typically meant I would end up sweeping the house, but if it meant not
doing dishes, I was all for it.